Also, discuss how you will handle the situation if your families are opposed to the relationship, and talk about the elephant in the room.Don’t be afraid to discuss why both of you were drawn to date someone that isn’t close to your age range.The two of you must talk about your expectations, needs and fears. This will be a definite deal-breaker if you’re either past the point of having children or have no desire to have kids.If children are not a deal-breaker for you, there are several options for you down the road.It gives the implication that older women are on the prowl, hunting younger men, known as “cubs”, as if they are prey.However, most women are approached by younger men, not the other way around. By not associating yourself with that term, you will erase any negative feelings toward having a relationship with a man much younger than yourself.Older women aren’t inclined rush into a commitment too quickly.
Another study published in the journal, Psychology of Women Quarterly, found women who are ten or more years older than their partner report more satisfaction and relationship commitment compared to women who are the same age or younger than their partner.“We don’t know for sure, but it may be because when the woman is older, it shifts the traditional heterosexual power dynamic toward greater equality.
This strength is another trait that attracts younger men to older women.
It takes a great deal of the pressure off of them and the relationship.
Men are attracted to confident women regardless of their age. Younger women tend to have more insecurities as they are still figuring out their place in the world, drawn to dating “bad boys” and are more likely to play games with the men that they date.
On the other hand, older women are already established, are more comfortable in their skin and are finished with all the BS games they played when they were younger.